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I am a fit, healthy, non-drinker that always dresses nice. Recently I was walking through the resort village I live near and was shocked by the universal slopiness of the people there on holiday. However, I am also fairly covered in tattoos, which began late in life during a time of despair for the degradation of society during covid lockdowns. Occasionally I look back and wonder if I could do it all over again if I would refrain from being tattooed. It is an interesting thought, but as a conservative-minded 55 year old man, nobody cared about me or my opinions when I wasn't tattooed, and nothing has changed since accumulating a body of American Traditional tattoos. I suppose in some ways my nostalgic tattoos are a harkening back to times I remember growing up and the blue collar workers I knew in my family, as well as coworkers. Even amongst the tattooed crowd I do not fit in. I understand painting with a broad brush when evaluating the tattooed population, and in many cases I do so myself. I also hold no grudge towards anyone that looks down their nose at tattooed individuals. But, we are not all alike. It is always an interesting exercise to consider how I am perceived. In most cases, I am speaking to my clients on the phone or through email, so I have a chance to prove myself before an in-person meeting. I also wear long sleeves and long pants to meetings where my tattoos are mostly hidden. In a suit and tie there are only very subtle hints that I have tattoos, and my age and demeanor are not indicative of the amount of tattoo coverage I have. I do find it interesting that so many conservative writers hold up tattoos as a sign of decline, and in many cases I agree. However, I am old enough to know that life, and people are complicated.

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Cultural commentary aside which requires broad brushes, and can make no claims on the quality of an individual's character, it is an unfortunate aspect of human nature to judge superficially.

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Interestingly, that is why I always dress nice. You only have one chance to make a first impression. I suppose I am old enough that I just said f*#k it.

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